Meet Lili
You are not alone.
As a new caregiver, it’s easy to second-guess yourself which adds even more layers of anxiety to an already stressful situation.
Are you like I once was, frustrated, frightened, and exhausted with the responsibility of taking care of someone you love who is very ill? Or maybe you’re facing the end of your Loved One’s life, not sure of the best way to handle all the critical tasks of the final passage.
I know how that feels. I know exactly what you are going through. Since I was very young, taking care of others has been a core aspect of my life. And that’s why I feel so compelled to support those who are caring for others during what are the most challenging situations.
You might say I was born to be a caregiver and death doula. It was a large part of my childhood and it seemed second nature to me.
Today, I'm an Amazon best-selling author, speaker, and caregiver advocate on a mission to transform the way we approach dementia, end-of-life planning, and caregiving. I believe these conversations shouldn’t be awkward, overwhelming, or postponed until crisis strikes. Instead, I’m breaking the stigma—because planning ahead isn’t about fear; it’s about love, choice, and ensuring the best possible experience for you and your loved ones.
My passion for this work runs deep. Raised by a father who was an Episcopal priest and hospital chaplain, I grew up witnessing the power of compassionate care. But it wasn’t just theory—it became personal when I spent over 12 years caring for my aunt, father, and mother. Through that journey, I learned firsthand that a little structure, a lot of creativity, and open, honest conversations can transform caregiving from a burden into a more manageable—and even meaningful—experience.
That’s why I founded Much Love, Lili—to provide practical, no-nonsense support for caregivers through books, coaching, and resources designed to replace stress with confidence. My Caregiver’s Guide isn’t just another book—it’s a lifeline, packed with expert insights on hiring help, setting boundaries, and navigating end-of-life care with clarity and grace.
Coping with dementia isn’t just about managing symptoms—it’s about rethinking how we support those affected by it. I’m dedicated to shifting the narrative from fear and stigma to understanding and preparation. I believe that when we start talking about dementia openly, we give families the power to plan with dignity, create meaningful moments, and ensure that no one faces this journey alone.
For me, caregiving isn’t just about meeting needs—it’s about changing the way we think about aging, dementia, and planning for the future. I’m here to prove that talking about these things early isn’t morbid—it’s empowering. With the right mindset, tools, and support, caregiving can be less about exhaustion and more about connection, meaning, and even moments of unexpected joy.
This website, my one-on-one coaching sessions, Lili’s Caregiver’s Guide, and my Priority Planner, are the resources I could not find when I searched for them.
At Much Love, Lili, you’ll learn that you are not alone. I’m here for you. I pass on to you the skills and strengths it took me years to learn. And I pass them on with a great deal of love, from me to you.
Much Love,
