Lili’s
Caregiver’s Guide
Create the best possible life and passing for your loved ones.
A heartfelt and comprehensive resource crafted by Lili Udell Fiore, who found herself navigating the complex world of caregiving for her beloved aunt and aging parents. Drawing from her personal experiences and the wisdom of professionals, friends, and family, Lili offers practical advice and tools to help caregivers manage their responsibilities with grace and confidence.
Learn how to bring peace, organization and a sense of control into your life as a Caregiver.
What’s Inside
40+ forms to help you keep track of your Loved One’s personal and medical care:
How to choose, hire and work with additional Caregivers including forms to help guide you in the process
How to choose a nursing home or assisted living facility and guidance on making the move easier
How to handle sticky subjects and tough conversations about end-of-life planning and legal documents
Plus chapters focused specifically on taking care of you and learning to live again after a Loved One has died
Lili, your book is absolutely amazing! It is comprehensive, educational, compassionate, and very well-written. I did not realize how much experience you have in the field! This is a wonderful resource not only for caretakers but also for professionals who are treating these patients. You are very talented and the book will be well received in the medical field.
Dr. Anette Bodoky, NC
About the Book
While in her forties, Lili Udell Fiore found herself in a difficult situation. While juggling her career, marriage, and family, she received a call that her beloved aunt, who lived many states away, was not well. Faced with managing her aunt’s care from a distance, Lili relied on wisdom from professionals, friends, and family members to do her best. Eventually, Lili found her way, and then was also faced with caring for her aging parents.
In a helpful resource for caregivers seeking trusted guidance, Fiore shares the lessons learned and wisdom gained from missteps along her own journey as a caregiver. This knowledge also includes lessons she learned from her father who was an Episcopal Priest and head of Pastoral Care at the local hospital and an early teacher of dying and death in the 1970s. Her guide provides advice on how to hire Caregivers, create healthy boundaries, utilize her sensory care method, approach Loved Ones about advocating on their behalf, provide end-of-life care, and dozens of tracking forms for personal and medical care.
There are various forms for managing caregiving, preparing for your Loved One’s death, and managing affairs after death. Included is valuable insight on grief and how to live again once the journey as a caregiver has ended. Lili’s Caregiver’s Guide shares proven methods to help Caregivers find peace, organization, and a sense of control while creating the best possible life and passing for you the Caregiver and your Loved Ones.
My Sensory Care Method
Developed when I was a Caregiver, this method will help you bring your Loved One continued joy. My Method will help You:
Learn the things they like now and which senses are the strongest
Create an environment that surrounds your Loved One in comfort, even if they are in a nursing home
An additional group of questions focusing on fulfillment to give your Loved One a sense of still mattering
Don’t like writing in books or just want forms from a specific chapter?
All the forms are included in the book but they are also available as PDF’s so you can download the forms you need!
This book has everything you need to know (and the know how) to take care of elderly family members or even those not so young. Along with preparing for death, the book explains how to handle affairs before and after and how to manage life after loss and much more. I am honored to have gotten to know Lili and to see how dedicated she truly is to helping those thru these difficult times. She is kind and compassionate and it shows not only in her presence but in her book.
Amy Maltarich