When a Loved One is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, it’s important to take the time to address children’s fears and questions about the disease. Getting kids involved in the care of the affected person, while giving them clear directions on when to ask an adult to intervene, helps them build empathy and continue to create positive memories with their Loved One and helps children feel included.

As your Loved One’s ability to understand words diminishes, they will focus on the tone of your voice and your body language. This is where the work I do comes in – helping caregiver support their loved ones with dignity and warmth.

I am honored to write this column for the Much Love, Lili newsletter and want to use this opportunity to talk about why I wrote my book, Finding the Right Words: A Study of Literature, Grief, and the Brain.

If your Loved One has been diagnosed with any type of dementia, or if they just get confused sometimes, it may be tempting to correct, re-orient, or tell them the truth of their actual situation. I would like to give you a few things to consider before you decide to, essentially, tell your Loved One that they are wrong.